Will you play nice or naughty this Valentine's? Check out these super sweet versus deliciously wicked ideas to reconnect with the man in your life.

Be a foodie

• Cook a meal together.
• Or surprise your guy by cooking his favorite, hard-to-make dinner. Inept in the kitchen? Browse the Internet for recipe ideas.

• "Feed your man with your hands. Spaghetti goes down much more amusingly if you eschew using forks," suggests Eve Marx, author of Read My Hips.
• Chocolate can get quite messy, which makes it sexy and fun. Try feed each other semi-melted chocolate or sauce. It's more than okay to use the same spoon!